I'm watching 'Super Size Me' and the subway jared guy said that "The world isn't going to change, you have to."
You know what, fuck that.
Girl if you’re big and happy, go on with your bad self. The world is constantly changing. Be the change you want to see in the world. Love yourself and people will love you. There’s no reason you should change yourself to fit society’s skewed perception of how someone should look. Love who you are.